headaches

Headaches are the new hot flashes. I had heard that Femara might do this to me. But it didn't last month so I was naive.

This month? Sheesh. Can't get a day without a pounding head.

Hopefully it's worth it.

Scan on Friday, IUI probably over the weekend. My husband is supposed to go out of town on Sunday, so I sure hope it's not then. Not that there's much controlling these things.

My good days have been more than my bad days lately. I am thankful.

But when my bad days come, they are bad. And they come out of the blue.

Just when I think the (extended) family has given up harassing us about having kids, someone goes and brings it up again. A stab in the heard, quite literally.

I know I could tell them about our struggle, but honestly, I'd rather them be in the dark. It's too personal to me to just leave it all out there for questions and criticisms.

But people? When a couple is in their 30's, when they've been married almost 5 years, and when you know they want kids, don't ask them, okay? Assume it's none of your business.